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Blended Families & Neurodivergent Moms: Building Trust & Connection
Nostalgic Neurodivergent Podcast·Kori·Feb 7, 2025· 2 minutes

Blended families in 90s sitcoms made it look so easy—one heartwarming conversation and suddenly, everyone’s best friends. In reality? Blending families can feel like trying to merge two completely different TV shows into one storyline.

If you’re navigating co-parenting, step-parenting, or complex family dynamics as a neurodivergent mom, this episode is for you.

In this episode, we’ll cover:
Why trust & connection take time in blended families
How neurodivergence impacts the blending process
Emotional regulation & communication strategies for smoother transitions
Boundaries that help create a harmonious home

🎧 Press play now to learn how to build trust, navigate change, and set your blended family up for success.

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🔍 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Why blending a family isn’t an instant process (and why that’s okay!)
How sensory overwhelm, executive dysfunction & RSD affect the transition
Communication strategies (including the B.I.F.F. method) for co-parenting & step-parenting
Practical ways to set boundaries & create structure in a blended home

🕒 Timestamps:

[00:00:00] Introduction – Why sitcom blended families set unrealistic expectations
[00:01:00] Why trust & connection take time in blended families
[00:02:00] How neurodivergence impacts the blending process (sensory overload, executive dysfunction, RSD)
[00:03:00] Why emotional regulation & co-regulation matter in blended families
[00:04:00] The power of clear communication & using the B.I.F.F. method
[00:05:00] Setting realistic boundaries for a harmonious home
[00:06:00] The Elephant in the Room: Blended families don’t just “click” overnight

🚀 Action Steps:

👉 Use the B.I.F.F. method when co-parenting (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm).
👉 Prioritize co-regulation. Model emotional regulation instead of reacting impulsively.
👉 Establish predictable routines. Kids thrive on consistency, and structure helps build trust.
👉 Set clear boundaries. Define household rules & expectations so kids feel secure.

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📚 Resources Mentioned:

📖 Complex Family Dynamics Communication Guide

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